Kinky women in Westerville

11 Kinky women in Westerville

ABOUT ME . ✦ In the interest of not wasting anyone's time; I'm "thicc", "curvy", "voluptuous", [insert additional descriptors here]. I'm not thin, my photos are not an inaccurate portrayal of me but I do utilize careful angles and lighting to best accentuate and flatter my shape. If this is a problem then move along. ✦ My physical description is 5'4", blue eyes, long auburn hair, measurements 52-38-55. ✦ Massive nerd, very into DC and Marvel, yes I cosplay and no I do not (and will not) wear cosplays during scenes/play. At least not any of my expensive and ***stakingly crafted ones, but I'm not opposed to sexy outfits/costumes in the bedroom. ✦ The farthest thing from religious or conservative. Anyone prescribing to either of those need not apply ✦ I'm a very straightforward, no nonsense kind of person. Opinionated, non-traditional, independent. ✦ Switch (commonly mistaken for a Domme). When I Domme/top it is usually with a female/femme partner. As a sub I tend to be bratty and engage in power play, and prefer male/masc Doms. Not set in stone, just a common pattern. ✦ Sapiosexual. Intelligence in a partner is a requirement for me to be attracted to them. (Note: this does not mean you have to have some crazy high IQ, and keep in mind that emotional intelligence falls under this umbrella). ✦ Demisexual. This one is hard to explain succinctly but basically I’m not going to want to sleep with you until we form some kind of emotional bond. This is NOT a preference, I will have literally zero sexual interest in you until I know you better as a person. Google may be your friend on this one. ✦ Sadomasochist. Heavy on the sadism (giving), light on the masochism (receiving). ✦ I'm a bit of a control freak in my day-to-day, so being relieved of that burden is certainly welcome, though because of this subservience from me is something that requires patience and trust. . . WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR . ✦ Primarily in the market for a male/masc Dom right now (subject to change) ✦ Preferably partners with experience in BDSM or D/s ✦ Intelligence (very important) ✦ Currently looking to explore being sub to a sensual/gentle Dom and partaking in some sensation play (candle wax, blindfolds, restraints, feathers, ice, etc). I'm also curious about exploring some facets of the Daddy Dom and little/middle dynamic. ✦ Someone who takes negotiation, consent, and safety VERY seriously. Safe, sane, consensual, friends. ✦ A partner interested in helping me to explore, learn, grow, improve. . . WHAT I AM -NOT- LOOKING FOR . ✦ Submissive males. At least….not at this moment. ✦ "Fake" Doms, or people who confuse being a TOP for being a DOM. They are two very different things. Please learn the difference. ✦ Anyone who's knowledge of BDSM was wholly derived from 50 Shades of Grey. ✦ Long distance relationships/arrangements. I've done it, not interested in doing it again. ✦ Couples, poly, or open relationships. I'm not interested in being anyone's unicorn or entering into any pre-existing dynamics. I have no moral issue with those who are in such arrangements but they're not for me. (UPDATE: I am -tentatively- exploring polyamory.) . . If you've any questions or find our interests to be compatible then please feel free to contact me.

ABOUT ME . ✦ In the interest of not wasting anyone's time; I'm "thicc", "curvy", "voluptuous", [insert additional descriptors here]. I'm not thin, my photos are not an inaccurate portrayal of me but I do utilize careful angles and lighting to best accentuate and flatter my shape. If this is a problem then move along. ✦ My physical description is 5'4", blue eyes, long auburn hair, measurements 52-38-55. ✦ Massive nerd, very into DC and Marvel, yes I cosplay and no I do not (and will not) wear cosplays during scenes/play. At least not any of my expensive and ***stakingly crafted ones, but I'm not opposed to sexy outfits/costumes in the bedroom. ✦ The farthest thing from religious or conservative. Anyone prescribing to either of those need not apply ✦ I'm a very straightforward, no nonsense kind of person. Opinionated, non-traditional, independent. ✦ Switch (commonly mistaken for a Domme). When I Domme/top it is usually with a female/femme partner. As a sub I tend to be bratty and engage in power play, and prefer male/masc Doms. Not set in stone, just a common pattern. ✦ Sapiosexual. Intelligence in a partner is a requirement for me to be attracted to them. (Note: this does not mean you have to have some crazy high IQ, and keep in mind that emotional intelligence falls under this umbrella). ✦ Demisexual. This one is hard to explain succinctly but basically I’m not going to want to sleep with you until we form some kind of emotional bond. This is NOT a preference, I will have literally zero sexual interest in you until I know you better as a person. Google may be your friend on this one. ✦ Sadomasochist. Heavy on the sadism (giving), light on the masochism (receiving). ✦ I'm a bit of a control freak in my day-to-day, so being relieved of that burden is certainly welcome, though because of this subservience from me is something that requires patience and trust. . . WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR . ✦ Primarily in the market for a male/masc Dom right now (subject to change) ✦ Preferably partners with experience in BDSM or D/s ✦ Intelligence (very important) ✦ Currently looking to explore being sub to a sensual/gentle Dom and partaking in some sensation play (candle wax, blindfolds, restraints, feathers, ice, etc). I'm also curious about exploring some facets of the Daddy Dom and little/middle dynamic. ✦ Someone who takes negotiation, consent, and safety VERY seriously. Safe, sane, consensual, friends. ✦ A partner interested in helping me to explore, learn, grow, improve. . . WHAT I AM -NOT- LOOKING FOR . ✦ Submissive males. At least….not at this moment. ✦ "Fake" Doms, or people who confuse being a TOP for being a DOM. They are two very different things. Please learn the difference. ✦ Anyone who's knowledge of BDSM was wholly derived from 50 Shades of Grey. ✦ Long distance relationships/arrangements. I've done it, not interested in doing it again. ✦ Couples, poly, or open relationships. I'm not interested in being anyone's unicorn or entering into any pre-existing dynamics. I have no moral issue with those who are in such arrangements but they're not for me. (UPDATE: I am -tentatively- exploring polyamory.) . . If you've any questions or find our interests to be compatible then please feel free to contact me.